Hoffman UK graduate newsletter | October 2023

Miracle Relationships: An interview with coach and author John Campbell

To read John's interview, click here

Relationship coach and author John Campbell did the Hoffman Process in the year 2000. We caught up with John to talk about his upcoming book, Miracle Relationships: A Path to Freedom and Joy, in which he kindly talks about the Process as part of an ongoing journey of self-discovery:


'After this incredibly tough seven days, I found a place of total acceptance and self-love; and forgiveness and compassion for both of my parents. The most powerful experience, though, was this feeling of total balance between them. I experienced them both as equal, with one not a fraction better or worse than the other.


This had an amazingly powerful positive effect on my life. It was only the start of my healing, but at least I no longer felt any male/female difference at a deep level and had healed this imbalance within me. Gradually, I noticed I no longer made any inappropriate gender difference comments like, ‘Women do this,’ or, ‘Men do that,’ and became increasingly sensitive to generalisations of that type from others. I had healed most of my male/female separation issues'.


John's book is released on 27 October (pre-orders now welcome). The link to find out more and to order is here

To read John's interview and the full excerpt, click here

Do you have a Process Story to share?

We'd love to hear from you! Call the office on +44 (0)1903 88 99 90 or email: graduates@hoffmaninstitute.co.uk

‘The Hoffman Process is absolutely amazing.’ Naomie Harris interviewed in The Times

Oscar-nominated actress Naomie Harris is well known for her roles as Moneypenny in three James Bond films, Paula in Moonlight and Tia Dalma in Pirates of the Caribbean. Naomie did the Hoffman Process in 2015, and mentioned her experience in an interview with the TheTimes last weekend. You can read an excerpt from the interview below, or click here to read the full article (you may be asked to register by The Times).


“The Hoffman Process is absolutely amazing. My closest friends always say, “There’s Naomie pre and post-Hoffman [a personal development course]”. Before, I couldn’t run very fast or far because of the scoliosis. I would get to a mile and then stop. Then I did the Hoffman Process and I ran five miles just like that. I thought not being able to run was a physical thing, but it was because of the emotional baggage I was carrying.”


To read the full interview, click here (you may be asked to register by The Times).

'Self-care vs self-pity', with Hoffman grad Michelle Ogundehin

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Writer, author, brand consultant & TV presenter Michelle Ogundehin is internationally renowned as an authority on interiors, trends, wellbeing and style. She's also celebrating her tenth anniversary of being a Hoffman grad. We'd like to thank Michelle for mentioning Hoffman in her recent blog post 'Self-care vs self-pity'. Here's a taster;


'Self-pity means seeking validation for your negative feelings and handing over responsibility for your pain to anyone who’ll take it. It’s the friend who moans on about something without doing anything to change her situation. It’s the ‘poor me’ school of thought, where you’re the victim waiting for someone to come and rescue you. It often features blame and can spring from feelings of fear, envy, hatred, or anger. Getting sympathy encourages us to feel our rage and hurt is justified.


Self-care on the other hand means taking positive steps to look after yourself, emotionally, physically, intellectually and spiritually (what Hoffman called the Quadrinity framework — the four aspects of self). Self-care is about paying attention to your needs; rescuing yourself by digging into your inner resources of creativity...'


To read the rest of Michelle's post, click here

The Heart of Relationships: One-Day workshop in London

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Looking for love can be a vulnerable and testing experience. Expectations – family, social, and our own – can conspire to spin us into a vicious cycle of shame-beliefs, fears and repeating negative patterns. But it doesn’t have to be this way. By examining and challenging those patterns in a compassionate light, we can improve our understanding of why we make the choices we do, and break through to a future in tune with our heart’s truest desires.


Our one-day workshop Heart of Relationships paves the way to enjoying relationships rich in intimacy, trust, optimism and fulfilment. Facilitated by Matthew and Emma Pruen (pictured), it's open to anyone of any age, gender or orientation, with or without prior knowledge of the Hoffman tools. Come on your own, with a friend, partner or Hoffman buddy.


Date: Saturday 18 November

Venue: St Luke’s, Islington

Led by: Hoffman UK facilitator Matthew Pruen and Family & Systemic Constellations coach Emma Pruen.

Times: 9.15am for a 9.30am start. We’ll finish at 5.00pm.

Cost: £200 per person

For more information and to book, click here


"I would thoroughly recommend this workshop, it really helped me to understand my triggers and patterns in relationships and how to make positive changes. Emma and Matthew were both amazing facilitators and they held a safe space for all to feel comfortable to share and be vulnerable. Thank you so much."

Graduate Support Online: Thursday 12 October

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Our online graduate support group for October takes place on Thursday 12 October from 7.30pm-9.00pm (UK time).


This month's group will be led by Supervising Hoffman facilitator and Managing Director, Serena Gordon (pictured).


‘The Hoffman tools don’t just fix things by themselves – to make the changes you want to see, you need to breathe life into them. Join us for a spin through the Cycle of Transformation and let’s shift some energy together in a proactive and creative way. All you need to bring is a pen, some paper and the willingness to engage.’


To book your place, email: graduates@hoffmaninstitute.co.uk

You’ll be sent the Zoom meeting ID and link by email in advance of the event.


Date: Thursday 12 October

Times: 7.30pm - 9.00pm (UK time)

Venue: By Zoom

Cost: Free


Can't make this date? The next is on Wednesday 22 November.

You'll find more dates on the post-Process website here.

Join us for a live Quad Check, led by a Hoffman facilitator

If you can't make it to a graduate support group, we run Quad Checks every Monday and Friday morning, at 8.00am UK time. Details are here

In-person Support Groups: Bristol, London & Brighton

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Build a support network of other local Hoffman graduates, and reconnect to your Hoffman toolkit at our facilitated, in-person Graduate Support Groups.


Each group costs £15 to attend and lasts for 90 minutes. For a full list of upcoming dates click here, or select an event using the orange links below. Honk! Honk!


Bristol and South West with Eliza (pictured):

Tuesday 24 October


London with Serena:

Wednesday 11 October

Wednesday 15 November

Wednesday 20 December


Brighton with Roxy:

Monday 27 November


If you’re not able to attend in person, you’ll be warmly welcomed at our free, monthly online Support Groups, led by a different member of the Hoffman UK team each month. For details, click here

Book coaching sessions with Hoffman facilitators

Hoffman coaching gives you the space to explore how you're feeling and to work through issues one-to-one using the Hoffman tools. Our facilitators will support you in identifying and developing your strengths, as well as tuning in to your own inner guidance.


Sessions cost £110 and last for an hour. There's no minimum number of sessions. You're welcome to work with any facilitator.


'The facilitator I ended up having sessions with wasn't somebody who I'd met on my Process week, but the sessions were still really useful because they used Hoffman tools that I had already learnt...'


For more info about coaching and to book, click here

To find out a little more about each of the team, click here

Hoffman Process: information for friends and family

For 2024 dates, click here

Hoffman Process dates with availability* for the remainder of 2023 are below - feel free to share with family and friends. Dates for Spring 2024 when we return to Oxon Hoath in Kent are available to book on our website, here. Our new venues allow us to offer more single-room accommodation than ever before; please visit the Venues page on our website or contact us if you have specific questions.


October 7-13: Charney Manor: Available

October 21-27: Charney Manor: Available

November 11-17: Charney Manor: Available

November 25-December 1: Charney Manor: Available

December 9-15: Charney Manor: Available


For general information about Hoffman and what it entails, we hold weekly information evenings by Zoom that are free to attend. These take place at either 7.30pm on a Tuesday evening or 4.00pm on a Wednesday. You can find details of upcoming dates here.


If you'd like to chat with a member of the team about recommending a friend or family member to Hoffman, email graduates@hoffmaninstitute.co.uk or give the office a call on +44(0)1903 88 99 90.

* At the time of writing! If a Process is on a Wait List, spaces do regularly become available. To find out more about Wait List places, email enrolment@hoffmaninstitute.co.uk or call us on +44(0)1903 88 99 90

The Post-Process Website

Events, Downloads and a Hoffman Toolkit

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 The Hoffman Post-Process Journal

365 days of the year with Hoffman tools.

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The Hoffman App

Tips, tools and connection in your pocket...

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*All dates in this newsletter are correct at the time of sending, but are subject to change.

Visit www.hoffmaninstitute.co.uk/post-process-event-calendar for the latest updates.

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